How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 06:38
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What are the most extreme examples of hypocrisy?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is the naughtiest fantasy that you've lived out?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How do teachers justify punishing a student for fighting back against their bullies?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How do you help patients stop hearing voices?
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Ask yourself:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
In the TV show Supernatural, why is God portrayed as cruel?
Does not procrastinate.
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Is it recommended to leave a note in a lost wallet asking for it to be returned?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What I need from you?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.